Don’t Fear The Pixie

Don’t Fear The Pixie

anna-johnson

“I love your hair! I wish I could wear it, but I could NEVER pull that off!”

As a stylist and proud pixie cut wearer, I hear this said to me at least once a day. Closely followed by, “My face is too round for short hair” and “I would look so much bigger!”

What is it about pixie haircuts that both entices and strikes fear into the heart of women everywhere? Why are we so impressed with celebrities that get pixies and *gasp* look good? What exactly is it that makes this haircut so hard to wear well?

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As a stylist, I hear a lot of the fears women have that they might not share with others. Some have to do with body image or attractiveness. Others about security and comfort. I would like to make something clear, a pixie cut is a bold look. That does not mean that it needs to be arbitrarily edgy, androgynous, or unflattering. By wearing my hair shorn, I’m not subverting cultural expectations or railing against cultural norms. I wear my hair short because it makes me feel pretty. I do not think that every woman can wear the same pixie haircut, but I do believe there is a pixie cut that flatters every woman.

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Everyone has had a bad haircut. It usually happens around middle school. Your mom took you into the neighborhood salon and the stylist cut your hair short. Too short. You spent six months explaining to people that you were actually, totally a girl! This is one of my favorite fears to debunk. First off, you’ve gone through some changes since middle school. There won’t need to be any explaining this time around. And now you know both a little something about how to do your hair and have a better grasp of your personal style. I mean the girl who was good at that in 7th grade? Well, heaven help the person that peaks in 7th grade.

If I believed everything my guests told me, everyone has round face. Every woman who sits in my chair believes herself to have the roly-polyiest face mankind has ever seen. Most people have oval faces which are extremely versatile and can wear many different looks. And if you truly do have a round face, the key is to find a style with height on top and some wispy sideburns. Trust me, height is much easier to get when your hair is three inches long!

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Before I got my first pixie cut, I had one thing on my mind: Will I look like a tiny little head perched atop a giant body? I pushed my images of eminent pinhead-dom aside and took the leap. A funny thing happened. My body looked exactly the same. My head looked no smaller. It turned out that my hair was not keeping me in proportion all these years and had not been hiding my belly from the world. I looked like me. But with an adorable new crop to call my own.

Now I’m not saying that a pixie cut will require no work from you. First of all, pixies need product. It is the only way to avoid looking like The Beatles flop top, or like me in the morning, a Yu-gi-oh anime character. Your stylist can best recommend a texture product for your hair and style. I love Aveda Men’s Grooming Clay for piecey-ness and Aveda Pure Abundance Hair Potion for rock star height. It is also important to maintain that pixie to avoid the ever-present mullet danger. A trim every 4-6 weeks will keep it looking impeccable.

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If you’ve been a long hair girl all your life, you will also need to learn a new way to style. Slowly back away from the round brush. Your blowdry will now consist of blow drying all your hair forward from the area of distribution (that swirly on the top back of your head) with your fingers. When the hair is completely dry, use your favorite texture product to piece out the hair all the way from the roots to the ends. For most people, a dime sized amount of product warmed up between your palms is sufficient. Shake through, twist ends, and place them wherever you want.

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I’ve claimed that there is a pixie cut for everyone and hopefully assuaged some fears, but is there anything that should be avoided when going under the shears? Absolutely. Don’t keep length at the nape of the neck. Even short wisps look dated and age the look. Make sure to keep some pointy length in front of the ears. This keeps the look feminine. Also, avoid too much height in the crown, this also feels old fashioned.

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A pixie cut is the strongest accessory that you can wear every day. It makes every outfit pulled together and stylish. It exudes confidence. My only warning for after you get a pixie? Watch out for lots of compliments from baristas.

–Anna Johnson, Atelier Senior Artist and Education Director

(all photos are her work)

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19 Comments
  • Rhonda Buedefeldt
    Posted at 18:42h, 04 July Reply

    Anna, I’m inspired to get a pixie cut after reading your marvelously written piece! Your whimsical humor of botched adolescent short cuts and worry over gender identification was right on girl!

    Thank you so very much for dispelling the falsities that a pixie brings more attention to a chubby stomach or that only the youthful can successfully wear the cut.

    I began collecting pixie photos in February, but wained over the decision because I have a natural curl. Today, after a jolt of inspiration from you – I’m back on the “pixie train”.

    Now, the challenge is to be patient while i search my corner of Oregon for a pixie stylist with your level of artistic flare, knowledge and talent.

    • ateliersalons
      Posted at 23:07h, 06 January Reply

      Love your comment, Rhonda! Best of luck on your search for the perfect pixie artist!

      • Arelys hernandez
        Posted at 21:49h, 17 March Reply

        Fo for it u wont regretted I have curly hair & I did it , I wish I would have done it sooner but only with someone that truly knows how to cut a picie

  • *Daisy
    Posted at 22:44h, 05 February Reply

    I love the above comment and the post :) I am trying out the short do:) first time for anything! It is hard to get a true pixie, but you are right..I love it when it’s cut well

    • ateliersalonspa
      Posted at 01:09h, 10 February Reply

      Thanks, Daisy! (we love your happy name!!)
      Hope to see you for a pixie cut at Atelier one of these days!

  • Audrey R Moore
    Posted at 08:46h, 06 January Reply

    Shoulda added some cute pics to go with your article!!

    • ateliersalons
      Posted at 23:18h, 06 January Reply

      Hi Audrey,
      Great idea! This article was originally published in 2015 with photos that have disappeared from the web. We republished with photos of the blog post author Anna’s work. Thanks for the suggestion!

  • Gina M Martin
    Posted at 04:51h, 11 March Reply

    I HAD LONG HAIR. IT WAS LIKE STRAW. AND ALOT OF BREAKAGE. I CUT IT TO MY SHOULDERS. IT IS THICK HAIR ON THE ENDS, LOOKS HEALTHLY NOW. ALL WOMEN SHOULD DO SOMETHING DIFFRENT WITH THEIR HAIR. IT IS FUN.. WHY WEAR THE SAME HAIR LOOK YEAR AFTER YEAR. I AM A GIRLY GIRL. I DO NOT BELIEVE YOU WOULD LOOK LIKE ANYTHING BUT A GIRL WITH A PIXIE. I LOVE MAKEUP. IT WOULD GRAT WITH A PIXIE CUT. NOT EVERYTHING IS LONG HAIR. SHORTER HAIR LOOKS BEAUTIFUL TO. LONG HAIR CAN LOOK TERRIBLE LOTS OF KNOTS. BREAKAGE. AND SCRAGGLY. GO PIXIE!.

  • Amanda G
    Posted at 14:12h, 18 March Reply

    I had extremely long hair my whole life. Got sick of it 5 years ago, and got a pixie. I’ve had it every since and love it! Never going back to long hair!

    • Sara Blue
      Posted at 02:18h, 19 October Reply

      Same here and I’m not going back either!

  • Suzanne Parvin
    Posted at 20:56h, 11 April Reply

    I’m a short hair girl who happens to be a stylist. Women who tell me I just can’t cut my hair because my husband would hate it” infuriates me! Especially when they have dank stringy strands not enough to make a ponyor a decent style. There’s NOTHING sexy about that, and I have had a few husbands secretly tell me to suggest a serious cut!
    Women need to be fierce. See their hair as accessories. Switch it up and have some fun.

  • Eve
    Posted at 04:28h, 12 June Reply

    Hi,
    I’m transitioning to my natural grey hair and would love to get a great pixie cut. Where can I get Anna to cut my hair?

    Cheers
    Eve

    • ateliersalons
      Posted at 02:16h, 30 September Reply

      Hi Eve, Anna, as you can see on our Meet The Team page, https://ateliersalon.com/meet-the-team
      works in our Santana Row location. You can text us at 408-244-4222 to book an appointment with her. We look forward to seeing you soon!

  • mandy tetter
    Posted at 11:14h, 18 July Reply

    I rock a pick cut all day every day and I wouldn’t go back for nothing! Go Pixie Go! Luv it!

  • Lucie Barrass
    Posted at 12:30h, 10 August Reply

    Love your article! I got to 52 and then thought ‘forget your short neck and lack of bone structure, just go for it!’ And go for it I did, with a platinum/silver pixie that I absolutely love. I’m now rocking my 50s rather than hiding behind bland hair, and I feel 200% more confident. Boom! ??

  • Jani Gatto
    Posted at 05:48h, 18 August Reply

    I cut my long hair off with out thinking twice about it when I had made up my mind!! I ABSOLUTELY LOVE IT AND GET SO MANY INCREDIBLE comments on it ESPECIALLY from men!! Yes men! And of ALL ages!! I can’t believe how many men tell me it is so sexy !! I get hit on by so many men again, all ages!! When women tell me they wish they would have the guts to do it but they just are scared I tell them it doesn’t take guts to cut your hair that short it takes confidence to wear it, I am a very confident woman and I wouldn’t go back to long here for nothing you couldn’t pay me, besides it’s so fun to wea when women tell me they wish they would have the guts to do it but they just are scared I tell them it doesn’t take guts to cut your hair that short it takes confidence to wear it, I am a very confident woman and I wouldn’t go back to Long here for nothing you couldn’t pay me, besides it’s so fun to discover new products to put in my hair to add volume to stylet texturizer I just love it. I say just do it here always grows out but I tell you if you get the right cut and mines very young looking up my inspiration was Tara Bank’s haircut bangs all down in the front and everyone loves it … especially me !!

    • Mary Myers
      Posted at 18:17h, 06 October Reply

      Jani Gatto , Who cut your hair?

  • Ann Jones
    Posted at 16:14h, 26 September Reply

    BEEN WEARING “PIXIE” CUT FOR YEARS…I WENT FROM GREY HAIR TO PLATINUM…IT IS SO WONDERFUL,AN PIXIE CUT TOO!!!!!

  • Linda Clow
    Posted at 14:00h, 04 November Reply

    I’m 60+ and have had a pixie since my 30’s!! Different variations, but always a pixie. I now have beautiful silver white hair, natural color and my pixie looks awesome!

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